Archive for May 2007
Spent yesterday with the family. Most of the day was just at home with my wife and children, it was nice and quiet. We watched a couple of sappy movies, which made my wife smile and get all teary-eyed.
Late in the day we went to my mom’s house for dinner with my brother and sister and their families, that was nice and low-key as well.
At some point yesterday I started reading a meditation on Chenrezig and thinking more about it. Clearly I am not an authority on this meditation, nor am I an authority on Chenrezig or even Buddhism, but I do very much like this meditation. I like how it flows, I like the imagery it creates in my mind and I especially like the way I feel when I am done.
Rejoicing
With happiness, I rejoice in the ocean of virtues of developing the mind of enlightenment wishing to bring joy to all sentient beings and working for everyone’s benefit.
As I read and then re-read this above excerpt many times I thoughts about my children and how I react to them. I am all-to-quick to anger, my voice rising and the heat pouring off of me. I judge before I know the whole story with them, favoring the little ones most of the time.
I realized that I am not helping my children to rejoice. I am good about that with my friends and coworkers, but not with the souls that should matter most of all to me. My own little creations.
So I decided, once again, to try harder, to re-double my efforts with them and to show more compassion as I go. In meditation on Chenrezig, the Buddha of Compassion, you would think I would begin to listen to the words I am saying.
I was sitting there in my mother’s house and I was upset with something that my son had done, I suddenly was very aware of my mother watching me. She had a look in her eyes that said a lot to me. She was upset that I had handled myself badly again. She was worried that I had scolded my son with out showing him loving kindness. My mother has always been one of the most compassionate people I have ever know, and now I realized how my actions were hurting her as well as my son. I saw myself in her eyes and I was not happy with the person she was seeing.
OK, so now I am actively listening. Maybe this time I will start to get it right. Thank you Mom, and Happy Mother’s Day.
I copied in whole this document from another site; http://www.lucidcafe.com/library/96jun/buddha2.html. I did so because all too often web pages that I enjoy and frequent are suddenly gone, and with the web being what it is technologically this should not happen. Once a page is available, the net should insure that the information contained on that document is always available.
Buddha set forth his teaching in the following doctrine.
The Four Noble Truths:
1. All things and experiences are marked by suffering/ disharmony/ frustration (dukkha)
2. The arising of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration comes from desire/ craving/ clinging.
3. To achieve the cessation/ end of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration, let go of desire/ craving/ clinging.
4. The way to achieve that cessation of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration, is walking the Eightfold Path.
The eightfold path to the cessation of suffering:
1. Right Understanding of the following facts:
- the truth about suffering … (The Four Truths);
- everything is impermanent and changes;
- there is no separate individual self- this is an illusion. (We are one!)
2. Right Determination to:
- give up what is wrong and evil;
- undertake what is good;
- abandon thoughts that have to do with bringing suffering to any conscious being; cultivate thoughts that are of loving kindness, that are based on caring for others’ suffering, and sympathetic joy in others’ happiness.
3. Right Speech:
- Abstain from telling lies.
- Abstain from talk that brings harm or discredit to others (such as backbiting or slander) or talk that creates hatred or disharmony between individuals and groups.
- Abstain from harsh, rude, impolite, malicious, or abusive language.
- Abstain from idle, useless, and foolish babble and gossip. Abstain from recrimination and negative statements.
- Abstain from harsh speech—practice kindly speech.
- Abstain from frivolous speech—practice meaningful speech.
- Abstain from slanderous speech—practice harmonious speech.
- Speak the truth if it is useful and timely. Practice only necessary speech. Let your speech be filled with loving kindness. Speak that which alleviates suffering.
4. Right Action:
- Peaceful, honorable conduct; abstain from dishonest dealings; take concrete steps necessary to foster what is good.
- Do things that are moral, honest, and alleviate suffering. Do not do things that will bring suffering to others or yourself.
5. Right Livelihood:
- Abstain from making your living from an occupation that brings harm and suffering to humans or animals, or diminish their well being. This includes: activities that directly harm conscious beings, and activities that indirectly harm sentient beings, e.g., making weapons or poisons.
6. Right Effort:
- Foster good and prevent evil;
- Work on yourself—be engaged in appropriate self-improvement. The essence of right effort is that everything must be done with a sense of proper balance that fits the situation. Effort should be properly balanced between trying too hard and not trying hard enough. For example, strike the balance between excessive fasting and over-indulgence in food. Trying hard to progress too rapidly gets poor results, as does not trying hard enough.
7. Right Mindfulness or wakefulness:
- Foster right attention.
- Avoid whatever clouds our mental awareness (e.g., drugs).
- Systematically and intentionally develop awareness.
8. Right Concentration:
- Developed by practicing meditation and/or mental focusing. Proper meditation must be done continuously while awake, and should include work on awareness of body, emotions, thought, and mind objects.
Five basic precepts:
1. Abstain from killing living beings (from destroying/taking life)—or practice love.
2. Abstain from taking the not-given (from stealing)—or practice generosity, practice giving.
3. Abstain from sexual misconduct—or practice contentment.
4. Abstain from false speech (from lying)—or practice truthfulness.
5. Abstain from taking intoxicating drinks—or practice awareness and mental clarity.
Buddha said:
Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. Do not believe anything because it is spoken and rumored by many. Do not believe in anything because it is written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and the benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.
The following prose, attributed to Buddha, is a poetic expression of the way he saw the world.
Buddha said:
- I consider the positions of kings and rulers as that of dust motes.
- I observe treasures of gold and gems as so many bricks and pebbles.
- I look upon the finest silken robes as tattered rags.
- I see myriad worlds of the universe as small seeds of fruit, and the greatest lake in India as a drop of oil upon my foot.
- I perceive the teachings of the world as the illusions of magicians.
- I discern the highest conception of emancipation as a golden brocade in a dream, and view the holy path of the illuminated ones as flowers appearing in one’s eyes.
- I see meditation as a pillar of a mountain, nirvana as a nightmare of daytime.
- I look upon the judgments of right and wrong as the serpentine dance of a dragon, and the rise and fall of belief as traces left by the four seasons.
I am learning more about Reiki and preparing to take classes about this healing art. So far I am loving it and what it stands for. I will be blogging more about it soon.
Just for today (Kyo dake wa):
Don’t get angry (Okoru na)
Don’t worry (Shinpai su na)
Be grateful (Kansha shite)
Work hard (Gyo wo hage me)
Be kind to others (Hito ni shinsetsu ni)
– Mikao Usui O’Sensei
I really like this page at the Reiki Threshold for a good definition of how you should read the 5 concepts and how you can implement them yourself. O’Sensei was a Buddhist and you can clearly see that reflected in his statement.
He wanted his followers to chant this as a prayer, as a manta, thinking about it mindfully. Sitting in gassho, that is with your hands in prayer.
Live in the Now as anger and worry are useless, be Grateful, have a Right Livelihood and be Compassionate.
Sounds like the Eightfold Path was his model.